Unfortunately true - women are judged by everyone.Basically as a woman it's hard to a) not be scrutinised and b) not to be criticised.
It doesn't matter wether a woman wears the latest designer fashions, shop from goodwill/charity shops, go naked or wear a hijab, she will be open to criticism. Since you'll never be right, you may as well please yourself.
Make yourself happy, that happiness shines through and that’s priceless - worth so much more than what others think.
Ha! Another book you’ve recommended - off to Amazon I go! Thanks!I should also recommend a book that was recommended to me on tPF (I think on this forum's chat thread)
The Thoughtful Dresser: The Art of Adornment, the Pleasures of Shopping, and Why Clothes Matter by Linda Grant. You are not alone.