Ladies please....where oh where do we find these Hermes rulebooks?? The one that says you cannot wear a Kelly 32 unless you are at least 5' 4"?? Or the one that declares that because you are approaching 6 feet tall and want to carry a Birkin you MUST carry at LEAST a Birkin 35?? Or that box calf is restricted to nighttime or more formal use?? I feel so bad when I read posts like this. Admitedly I am probably twice the age of many of you.....and surely many feel I am ranting ( I AM!!) but I see all you lovely young ladies and older ladies too, restricting yourselves to rules that I simply did not know existed until I came to the purse forum. I agree that comfort is a big big part of dressing. And if a lady does not feel comfortable doing or wearing something and is fine with that then......well, fine! But to hear someone ask....is it ok to wear a Birkin 35 if I'm only 5 feet tall.....goodness, of COURSE it's ok...if that's what you want to wear.....why wouldn't it be?? Who wrote these rulebooks? :boxing: Why can't we all invest in a full length mirror ( or not....just a suggestion ) and stand before it and if the look feels good, then go for it! Many is the morning I've put together my wardrobe pieces and took a quick mirror look....and...whoops....don't like this or that....remove or replace it.....and then, YES I like THAT....and out the door I go. I never read the "rule book" before I get dressed..... and I still feel comfortable and beautiful.