Some of you may know that I've been debating whether to keep my Black MJ Stam. It's a long story, but basically, since I purchased it, I haven't been able to bring myself to use it outside the house (carried it at home to try on with outfits and take pics to post on the PF). I ended up purchasing the Jimmy Choo Ramona bag as kind of the replacement bag for it. But, I can't seem to return the bag because I love the style, but I'm honestly having a mental block about using it. I've toyed with the idea of getting the small quilted bowler in black, BUT I just found out that my boyfriend is getting me the MbyMJ Totally Turnlock Bowler in black (yea!!) for our anniversary, so although they are different, they are similar in shape and color. So, now I'm thinking, maybe I should return the stam and get a little/baby Stam in black. I've thought about it, and it would be a really cute bag to use when I'm running around. Right now, the only smaller bag that I have in my possession (I often bring bags home so my mom and can use them too) is the Balenciaga First. Everything else that I have is either a large bag or tote, and seems cumbersome to use in the evenings and weekends. I think having another smaller bag would be nice. Do you guys think I'm doing the right thing? Is the rationalization there? I think that since I have been so conflicted about the regular Stam, maybe I need to just let go. Thanks!