okay, you all have officially lured me in...of course, the bluefly discount isn't hurting. so, first BV purchase....questions: 1. do you think the ball bag is a better "first bag" or a veneto? 2. i can't decide which color to get. i LOVE that pink....but as a first BV, maybe it's too....pink? i was leaning toward ebano, but then, i don't really have a cognac-colored bag, so i was thinking maybe the light brown would be better? agh! i'm decision-impaired...help!