Yes I agree. If the tracking said they are posted, she has sent you something and try not to get upset stressing. In all likelihood they will arrive just as you expected, postage can get held up.
They were the pair I was watching, and I know you paid alot of money for them so you do have ebay comeback, and presumably you paid on paypal (so why is she saying she has no paypal access?) which gives you protection.
I agree that we will probably never get to the bottom of this very weird seller, so if you have paid for shoes, don't worry yet, and if you haven't paid for shoes or ever see this seller on ebay again I strongly recommend you don't do business with her.
I feel bad to say this when we have 2 members involved with thekibrick but I am glad I did get outbid on the minibout - is that buyer on this forum - same day auction 23rd? If you are and you read this, did your shoes come - she told me you had paid? That might put schnuggelis mind at rest.
Try to wait it out schnuggeli, there is every chance they will come - let us know on this thread when they do ok, and I'm sure they will be lovely and you will love them. And thoang - I so wouldn't deal with this seller. No-one gets banned for a spelling mistake, she is full of it.
I am freaking about ebay now! It is getting worse and worse. I may just stick to stores.