You should try doing a charge send. Find an outlet that does have the gallery tote and put it on hold and tell them you want to do a charge send.
Then go to your nearest
Coach boutique since you are far from an outlet and have them call the outlet and fill out the paper work. A SA at the boutique will take an impression of your credit card and fax the paper work to the outlet. The SA at the outlet will then process your order and ship it to you.
Oh and not all outlets will even agree to do this. They have different district regulations. So you might have to make quite a few calls to find someone to agree.