WARNING: Long Rant!!! I sold a purse last Sunday and the buyer paid right away so I shipped the very next day. I always insure my bags and require a signature since paypal requires anything over $250 to be signed for. I checked the delivery status on Wednesday and it said it was out for delivery. I received an e-mail on Friday asking where the bag was so I rechecked the status. It says they left a notice and she could call and reschedule delivery or pick it up from the post office. I have always communicated well with my buyers by sending immediate e-mails after they pay and also forwarding tracking numbers the day the item ships. It surprised me that after two e-mails with all the info that she would contact me and ask me where the item was when I had already sent a tracking number. It has been 9 days and my bag still sits at the post office, they told me on the 15 day it will be sent back. Why in the world would someone pay for something and not pick it up?? If the bag comes back I do not think I should refund the shipping charges which I'm sure the bad feedback system will work against me. Not to mention trying to get my fees back, *bay requires the buyer to mutually agree to end the transaction before I can get my fees back. I have left numerous e-mails (8) asking her to contact me but have not gotten a reply. I suspect maybe the one e-mail that was sent to me by the buyer was trying to see if the bag was insured and would be requiring a signature. I almost feel like a scam was avoided because as soon as I copied the info from the usps sight with all of the details I never heard from her again and now she won't pick up the bag... If she changed her mind, whatever, just let me know.. Now what???