my son is turning 1 next month and we're throwing him a bday party. i know that a lot of people don't think this is right and please don't attack me for even considering it but because of the lack of space in my small house, i really would rather not get any toys for him for his birthday. a lot of you might say that i can't assume that people will be giving gifts, but in our culture, that is just how it is. it is almost required even. and the thing is, i do welcome gifts, i'm just concerned about getting so much toys and not having enough space in my already cluttered house for them. even though i already know that it really does seem tacky to be putting this on the invite, i do still want to know your thoughts. i hope i haven't offended or aggravated anyone with my question. just kindly asking for thoughts and opinions. :shame: thanks for reading!