After all that has been going on in my life, I had to break it off with the BF. I didn't think it would've worked out anyway since I'm planning to go off to grad school. Oddly enough, I wasn't (and I'm not) devastated as much as he was. I feel really bad for feeling this way. But I think what's been really bugging me is that I've never really felt like I needed anybody. I've always been really independent, and I never felt the need to find "the one"...and I don't think he exists for me. I feel like I'm cold-hearted. I don't want to make this too personal (hence this post is short) but I was just wondering...is it normal to feel this way? I feel like society pressures women to eventually get married or their dubbed as "old maids."