I will be attending the memorial service of the husband of one of my kids' teachers on Tuesday. The service will take place in a non-denominational church and I will not follow the group to the cemetery. I have black pants and tops but no black overcoat! I live in the southern US with typically very mild temps but the forecast for Tuesday looks really chilly for our area. Should I ditch the coat altogether or would it be ok to wear it and take it off while in the building? I think I'm worried about coming across as disrespectful because the two coats I have are bright red. I wouldn't feel so torn if they were in a muted color... Your input would be really appreciated!