Thank you again, I don't think I'll be buying any bags from eBay again and will definitely look at some of the sites recommended here.
I don't mind paying the return postage and I'll send it special delivery just to make sure I know I am covered. Just fingers crossed it goes my way.
I felt like that after 1 fake and 2 SNAD (stated new but were clearly used) took me a while to dabble again, I do steer clear of used bags though. I've had a few successful buys on ebay but I have new rules
1. Only buy when the quality of the pictures show the overall condition of the bag from all angles, close ups, especially hardware
2. Scrutinise feedback/completed sales, especially to see if they have sold it before
3. Men are the worst I got called a cu next Tuesday word, tend to avoid their listings
4. Always ask if any rips tears and stains inside or out or smells
5. How old it is
If hedges come back again,
Stick your ground and don't be tempted to enter into any argument, I would just go back and say that 'you are sorry, but you feel that the bag is not as described and you want a full refund and that you feel its better for ebay to make a decision as you have highlighted the bags issues and its clear from the sellers pictures it could not be seen. Say you want to work with them, but its clear they do not want to work with you'. Make it clear the bag also never retailed as their suggested price.
They tend to back down then, because if it goes in your favour, the seller will get a ding and their selling fees will not be refunded.
As said already, whether the seller accepts the return or ebay instruct you to return it, you must send it back 'special delivery guaranteed' and you must update the tracking in ebay.
All messaging must be within ebay and if they get abusive, report them. Follow ebays instructions and they will refund you as soon as delivery has been confirmed (usually).
This will work out in your favour I am sure....good luck and keep us posted.