I am currently trying to sell a bag on eBay. Although I have purchased many times, this is my first time selling a bag and I am a little nervous about all of this. I don't want to ship outside the US because of the issues that entails. I received a question from someone who seems very nice and has good feedback from the Philipines wanting to buy my bag. I said I don't ship outside of the US and she asked if I she could buy it but then have me send it to a friend of hers in the US who will be back in the Philipines later this month.
I've read enough on this forum to want to be very cautious about eBay transactions, even with people who seem on the up and up. My question is - is there any way to do this safely for me as a seller? I asked if her friend could pay with her own eBay/PayPal so that I can send it to her friend's confirmed address in the US, but apparently the friend doesn't have an eBay account.
My understanding is that I have no protection if I send it to any other address besides the PayPal confirmed address, right? If the buyer claims they didn't get it, then I would lose any chargeback dispute. Also, as a new seller I know they are likely to hold my funds for 21 days pending either positive feedback or delivery confirmation (they did this when I recently sold an electronics item of much lower retail value), and I wouldn't be able to have delivery confirmation if I don't send it to the right address. Am I understanding all of this correctly?
The only other thing I can think of is doing it off eBay, which I know eBay frowns strongly upon. As a buyer I would be very nervous about it, but what about as a seller? If the buyer paid me with her own PayPal account directly, could I ship to her friend's address, or would I still be out of luck with PayPal if there were a problem? I know at least I wouldn't have the 21 day hold issue that way.
I'm not eager to do this outside of eBay because I would like to build feedback. My only transaction thus far (the electronics one) went fine, but I had the luck of getting a buyer that has never left feedback for anyone, ever, in thousands of transactions. I was happy to get a good Buy It Now price for my item, so I can't complain, but it didn't do much to build seller feedback. Still, my main issue here is trying to get this item sold, but I want to do it as safely as possible.
I've read enough on this forum to want to be very cautious about eBay transactions, even with people who seem on the up and up. My question is - is there any way to do this safely for me as a seller? I asked if her friend could pay with her own eBay/PayPal so that I can send it to her friend's confirmed address in the US, but apparently the friend doesn't have an eBay account.
My understanding is that I have no protection if I send it to any other address besides the PayPal confirmed address, right? If the buyer claims they didn't get it, then I would lose any chargeback dispute. Also, as a new seller I know they are likely to hold my funds for 21 days pending either positive feedback or delivery confirmation (they did this when I recently sold an electronics item of much lower retail value), and I wouldn't be able to have delivery confirmation if I don't send it to the right address. Am I understanding all of this correctly?
The only other thing I can think of is doing it off eBay, which I know eBay frowns strongly upon. As a buyer I would be very nervous about it, but what about as a seller? If the buyer paid me with her own PayPal account directly, could I ship to her friend's address, or would I still be out of luck with PayPal if there were a problem? I know at least I wouldn't have the 21 day hold issue that way.
I'm not eager to do this outside of eBay because I would like to build feedback. My only transaction thus far (the electronics one) went fine, but I had the luck of getting a buyer that has never left feedback for anyone, ever, in thousands of transactions. I was happy to get a good Buy It Now price for my item, so I can't complain, but it didn't do much to build seller feedback. Still, my main issue here is trying to get this item sold, but I want to do it as safely as possible.