I have this style in noce. I can tell you with use the handle will soften considerably and mold to your shoulder. Yes, the bag puddles....good description ladies.....sometimes it's so soft it can be hard to get stuff in and out of the bag (for me at least). You might be able to SO a long strap in that color from BV. The metal end clips would attach nicely to the rings and I think it would look fine.