Hi all,
I'm a little confused on what to do. I interviewed for and have been offered a great opportunity to work as a supervisor. Salary, schedule and benefits simply cannot be beat. Only problem is, one of my direct reports will be an ex friend. We were friends for many years and fell apart explosively due to a huge betrayal from her and from myself just feeling incredibly used and over-invested while she was doing nothing to keep our friendship going.
I interviewed knowing that she works there but really didn't know that she was a part of this department. I guess since the last time we spoke she's been promoted.
I have every intention of accepting this offer but am at a loss on how to handle this? Can't really have a talk with her while working but I want to basically clarify to her that of course at work everything is professional and she shouldn't ever feel like I'm singling her out or being unfair to her.
Any suggestions?
I'm a little confused on what to do. I interviewed for and have been offered a great opportunity to work as a supervisor. Salary, schedule and benefits simply cannot be beat. Only problem is, one of my direct reports will be an ex friend. We were friends for many years and fell apart explosively due to a huge betrayal from her and from myself just feeling incredibly used and over-invested while she was doing nothing to keep our friendship going.
I interviewed knowing that she works there but really didn't know that she was a part of this department. I guess since the last time we spoke she's been promoted.
I have every intention of accepting this offer but am at a loss on how to handle this? Can't really have a talk with her while working but I want to basically clarify to her that of course at work everything is professional and she shouldn't ever feel like I'm singling her out or being unfair to her.
Any suggestions?