Togo would also be an alternative. The grains are smaller than clemence and it's weather proof and scratch proof. It also doesn't slouch as much as clemence would.
Regarding color, etoupe and graphite would also be great neutrals.
Deux Armoires, thank you. I do like Togo a lot too; the grain is so lovely and it was the first leather that came to my mind. I'm not quite sure, which colors are available for the next PO.
Then of course, I just read Cynthia's post ...
LOL, Angelfish! Mine was just in a mood that day, all dressed up with her twilly and all. She's a 35 as well, in case I didn't say that.
This year's Togo, to my eye, has not been that great, so I personally will not be ordering or begging for a Togo bag until I see some greatly improved Togo coming out. The Clemence from this year and last year has been amazing, but it will slouch and floop, of course, so I don't think that's a good option for what you want.
There's also Fjord, which hasn't been discussed yet, but it has a much larger grain pattern and is a tad heavier weight even nowadays (it's much lighter now than it used to be).
... which doesn't make Togo sound too good at the moment. What is actually wrong with it? Would be interesting to know...
Fjord is a good idea and it's a leather that I really wanted to like, but everytime I saw it, I thought it's not for me.