One of my colleagues just suffered a very traumatic miscarriage. She reports to me and called me first thing when she got home from the hospital where she had an operation. Anyway, I want to send her something (she lives in another state) in the mail but I don't know 1) what kind of card I should send ... sympathy, get well, thinking of you? 2) I want to send her something nice in addition to the card, something to let her know we are thinking of her, should I send flowers, a care package? Any ideas/suggestions would be much appreciated!