I guess I know the answer already, but do you think it is inappropriate to carry a small croc kelly to a funeral? Etiquette says conservative clothing is best and if the croc is not shiny and flashy, would it be ok? Or best to take a nonexotic? My brother in law just passed and I've nothing to wear other than a simple good black dress and want to change bags during different services so i am not looking identical to each one, my kelly is a 28 with silver hardware. what do u think?