My son is getting married in September, and I'm trying to find an evening bag that would match a tan dress. Tan is not a color I normally wear (mother of the groom is supposed to blend into the background), so I have nothing at home that I can use. I also need to find some kind of scarf or shawl (hopefully with a bit more color than tan). I don't want to spend a million bucks, since I'm already blowing thousands on other wedding expenses. Anybody got any ideas? Used is fine. Thanks, guys.