I'm looking at purchasing the Coach Pebbled Leather Shoulder Tote. I have a few questions and hope you ladies can help. Also, does anyone have pictures they can share wearing this bag? 1) Since this bag does not have a closure, do you find your items fall out easily? 2) I wear mostly black to work, but outside of work, strickly casual. Will this bag go with both types of outfits? 3) Do you think an almost 43 yr. old woman can wear a Coach bag? Seems to me I see so many younger gals wearing these bags (mostly signature)? TIA!!!!