My boyfriend and I have been dating for five and half years. Just lately I found out he is doing something I don't like. I got extremely upset. We didn’t talk for the next 3 or 4 days. Last night he called me and tried to explain why he had such a strong reaction to the whole situation. He said, “The point is not “stop using something”. I feel you are taking away my little freedom.” I feel bad. The truth is, he never ever stops me doing anything I want. He backs me up 100% in any situation. “As long as you are happy!” This is his favorite line. Okay, I just want to know how you PFers communicate in this type of situation. Thanks!