I can't seem to decide whether or not to leave negative feedback for this NP buyer as I am certain she will do the same to me. She has no reason to since I've done absolutely nothing wrong...however you know how retalliatory they are! The situation is this... Last Saturday my auction closed at which time I invoiced the buyer. Having not received any communication nor any payment from her, I re-invoiced her on Wednesday followed by an email request for payment on Friday. I never heard a word from her and thought perhaps she might be on vacation or ..worse yet..in the hospital! Not true! She too sells quite a bit on eBay and twice after winning my auction, she logged onto eBay to leave feedback for her buyers!! She had to be well aware that she was not only the winning bidder, but that she was being 'hounded' for payment of my auction. Early this morning, I reported her, knowing darned good and well that she would respond. She did, but I'm not accepting her excuse for non-payment. You see, I thoroughly read all of her feedback and found that twice over the course of the past five years, she has failed to pay for auctions that she won. Each time, she made an excuse as to why. IMO, she changed her mind either after bidding or winning my handbag and didn't know how else to get out from under her obligation to pay. I would be willing to bet that she has done this many times before but was never left negative feedback because the seller knew that she would retalliate. I'm fuming right now!! I don't want negative feedback from this woman when I don't deserve it, but at the same time I don't want her to get by with this. The only mark that I have against me is from 2002 when I never received an item that I had paid for through PayPal. After weeks of trying to contact the seller, I finally filed a claim with PayPal and left them negative feedback. The louse lied saying the item was mailed and at the same time left me a negative mark! eBay's feedback policy is not the least bit fair. Sorry to go off like this, but I am just miffed! Here's her comments... If what she says is true, she should have contacted me immediately and I would have understood. However, considering what I stated before about her having been on Ebay to leave feedback , I don't believe her! What would you do if you were me? You know she'll be ticked about the negative feedback I leave her, but someone needs to stop her nonsense.