I really need some objective opinions on my latest handbag dilemma... I finally got my "dream" bag, the black MJ Stam, and while it was in transit, I was seduced by another MJ bag, the Polina hobo. Now I have both and can't decide which to keep. I only have a couple days because of the MJ return policy for the Stam is about to expire. Here are pics of both bags. I love the look of the Stam, but feel the Polina will, in the long run, stand the test of time and be more practical for every day use. The Polina is big and slouchy and has a cool fold-over top. Plus I'm feeling I might be too old (40+) for the Stam even though it compliments my wardrobe. Your thoughts??? I'm driving myself crazy with this... Thanks!