I'm feeling very sensitive about this, so please be kind to me. My son apparently has a "friend" in Pre-K (I'll call her "Kayla"). Kayla, like all the others in his class is 4 years of age. He's only 3. As soon as I drop A (my son) off, she immediately grabs his hand. My son tells me that she tells him that she is "his girl", and she kisses boy and girl dolls together (is this normal for 4 year olds?!). She calls him Autumn (which he hates, btw), and gets mad when he plays with other children. When I come to pick him up, she always hugs him and stares at me while I talk to him. She has big eyes and watches my mouth closely, even from a distance, in a very unnatural, very unchild-like manner. When I asked my son about Kayla, he says that she is not his friend and that she talks to him and bothers him when he tries to get the teacher's attention. When my son told me his toy bus had a girlfriend this past evening, I flipped out. I'm sure this is Kayla's influence. I swear something is wrong with this girl, and I feel very bad. Felt bad about my decision to work and not stay home, for not homeschooling. I wanted to cry. So basically, I spilled my guts to my mother about this pyscho 4 year old and she laughed at me. She told me not to talk to his teacher about Kayla; she said they would think I was crazy. Be honest, do I sound paranoid? I'm not used to being around children and I don't know what is or is not typical for them. He is my first and only child, I'm 21, and I'm freaking out about doing a good job!