My fabulous boyfriend completely took me by surprise with the most beautiful Valentines Day present EVER! He bought me the infamous Black Work that I haven't shut up about ever since I crossed the Argent Day off my Bbag list! Heres the problem though, the bag does not look BLack at all, to me it looks more like Anthracite, so I need your help! Also the bag is really REALLY tough, nothing like my City and Day which are both super rich and soft. The leather on my work is really hard and rigid and very "veiny". Im seriously considering exchanging this for a "Darker, Softer" bag. What do you guys think?! Keep or Exchange?