I don't think Cindi was trying to be "mean" about it. There are many of us on this board that have dealt with serious, chronic illnesses. When you first get the news from the vet, it is devastating and life-changing. It is up to you to decide if it is an insurmountable obstacle, or an inconvenience for the last few years of your furry buddy's life.
If you are willing and able to explore the options available to YOUR situation, you can usually find a way to make things work. Yes, you will give up a lot of fun stuff, but in return, you get the unconditional love from your friend. Sadly, these are usually short-term situations, but I've found the extra time to be worth the price paid.
There will be times when you flat-out can't do anything for your pet, and need to consider whether you should send him across the bridge, or find someone that can care for him. I've always called it the fine print in the adoption contract. We tend to gloss over the ending of the story in the excitement of bringing home a new family member.
Talk to your vet about petsitting/boarding with people that know how to manage a diabetic animal. There may be someone at the clinic that can come in to take care of them, or you may be better boarding the cat at the clinic for longer trips away.
If you can get the insulin management under control, you may still be able to work the longer shifts without causing problems for your cat.
Really, everything comes down to you and what you and the lady in the mirror decide. I hope you can find a way to turn the diabetes into another PITA that comes around in life and enjoy the last few years of your kitty's life.
If you are willing and able to explore the options available to YOUR situation, you can usually find a way to make things work. Yes, you will give up a lot of fun stuff, but in return, you get the unconditional love from your friend. Sadly, these are usually short-term situations, but I've found the extra time to be worth the price paid.
There will be times when you flat-out can't do anything for your pet, and need to consider whether you should send him across the bridge, or find someone that can care for him. I've always called it the fine print in the adoption contract. We tend to gloss over the ending of the story in the excitement of bringing home a new family member.
Talk to your vet about petsitting/boarding with people that know how to manage a diabetic animal. There may be someone at the clinic that can come in to take care of them, or you may be better boarding the cat at the clinic for longer trips away.
If you can get the insulin management under control, you may still be able to work the longer shifts without causing problems for your cat.
Really, everything comes down to you and what you and the lady in the mirror decide. I hope you can find a way to turn the diabetes into another PITA that comes around in life and enjoy the last few years of your kitty's life.