I am glad to hear your pap survived its ordeal. My boyfriend used to do that to me all the time. He would contantly be handing me his keys, cellphone, wallet, etc to put in my bag. It would make my bag really heavy to carry around. Finally, I suggested he get himself a small messenger bag to carry around. Now he has his own "man bag" for his stuff, and he doesn't ask me to carry his stuff anymore.