I am soooooo FURIOUS at the moment (and i've been like this for the past 3 hours or so) that I can barely sit still. We took my children to my mother in laws so she could see them for a while today and as I was on my way out to the mall (i was taking my sister prom shopping) i told her "make sure u dont cut his hair"...(she is devoutly religious along with her husband and they think my son is not a good example for their kids because he has long hair and wears baby band shirts and skate shoes....)my son's hair was long and curly (like mini Jim Morrison hair) and we worked so hard to keep it maintained and it was his best feauture. (He got sooooo many compliments because of his hair) anyways, my husband texts messages me a few hours later to tell me that while he was upstairs with his brother, his mom got a hold of my son and cut his hair. And not just a little trim. THE WHOLE THING!!! All his curls and everything....I stopped and cried in the middle of the mall. People were looking at me like I was crazy but it's the fact that she did what SHE wanted with MY child after I told her not too!! She and her husband do not allow me and or my DH to even think about influencing her kids but with mine she thinks she can do whatever she wants. And then when I come home I start bawling again after I saw him and she snapped at me and said "It's just hair, it will grow back. He had alot of knots and glue in his hair." (he didnt. I think i know how to take care of my son's hair.) then she said "I told George (my dh) that u would be mad but im sorry. I already cut it. It's nothing to cry about." OMG!! And at that moment my parents who are on vacation call me to see how everything is going (they loved his long hair and my dad refused to even let my mother in law near his hair when he was here....) and i told them in between tears and they were sooooooooooo mad. My dad wanted to call my mother in law and beyotch her out from mexico but i calmed him down. They told me what makes them mad is that she did something i told her not too. And I know it wasnt a mistake because right before I left to the mall she started "joking" around about how she was gonna cut off all his hair. Sorry for this loooooooong rant but Im sooooo frustrated...any advice as to how to deal with this would be wonderful. Here are some pics so u can see the difference my horrible mother in law did.