My indecisiveness is killing me! (not literally, don’t worry)

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pinkmilq

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Here I am again! Still deciding on a 5 motif to match my yellow gold pave vintage pendant. I thought I had finally narrowed it down to the full pave 5 motif, but I had the chance to try on the guilloche/pave alternating in the boutique the other day. I think it’s super cute! I thought that maybe the alternating motif makes it so that it isn’t TOO “matchy-matchy” with my pendant and breaks up the pave a little. On the flip side, I have raging OCD and don’t fare well with visible scratches, so everyone is telling me pave is the most practical way to go, which I agree with. I’m having a tough time making a final decision, since I’d really like it to be something I can wear daily without having to worry, but also something I can style easily for any occasion. I feel like if I truly can’t decide, I may just have to rule out both… which would be very disappointing. But I don’t want to make a decision that I’ll regret either.
 

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Agree with this - vintage hammered also less matchy matchy (it sounds like you are mindful of that too) but still very cohesive
Unfortunately, I’m really not too fond of the hammered gold :( especially worn on its own. It’s kind of dull to me and doesn’t have any sort of ‘wow’ factor. I feel that the hammered gold is ideal for stacking, which I don’t plan to do.
 
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Why would you suggest against the full pave in terms of ocd?
The pave one will flip and you will see the back of it. It’s part of the reason I opted against the alternating 5 motif with pave and grey MOP, and that’s speaking as someone without OCD. It would just annoy me, although that’s a beautiful piece. The hammered gold looks the same on each side so motifs flipping isn’t an issue. I have it in a 10 motif and love it.
 
Unfortunately, I’m really not too fond of the hammered gold :sad: especially worn on its own. It’s kind of dull to me and doesn’t have any sort of ‘wow’ factor. I feel that the hammered gold is ideal for stacking, which I don’t plan to do.
Perhaps then you could go for the pave 5 motif and wear it quite fitted - that way less likely for motifs to flip. Probably still not impossible. The scratches on the guilloche will irritate you and I agree with others that it competes with pave too much.
 
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