My friend just called me sobbing on the phone, her husband just threated to leave her if she doesn't slim down .. here is the details She was my senior back in college and she got married right after graduation. Two years ago, she gave birth to a cute little girl, but she gained close to 20 pounds on her pregancy. Two years have passed and she hasnt been able to lose the baby weight she gained during her pregancy. To make matter worse, she has gained an additional 10 pounds in the 2 years period. The last time i saw her, she was really cheerful, she was even making jokes about how she would resigned buying clothes from the "maternity section" Her husband, on the other hand, keep himself fit and on top of his games. He has encouraged her to slim down along the way, but it is to no avail According my friend, he has threated to file for a divorce unless she gets her act together. Im at a loss of what to advice her.. i can't encourage her to leave her husband. On other hand, it seems very superficial to slim down so that her husband wouldn't leave her..so what do i tell her?