and now its stained!! agh! i am so distressed! i am usually very careful with letting friends borrow my bags. well, sometimes its awkward saying no, and my friend asked to borrow one of my bbags. i let her use my vert d'eau first and we went out for brunch...i soon realized what a mistake i had made. she never takes care of her bags (they are always in terrible shape) and she is just careless in general. she first put the bbag on the floor of my car! i was very tense during brunch and hinted a few times that maybe we should grab another bag when we went back to my apartment. in the end, she took it to the mall, then gave it bag to me before she went to the salon for the rest of the day. even so--i was about to put my first in its dustbag when i found a huge black stain on the bag! one of the handles also looks slightly blackened. i have no idea what caused the stain. i am going to try to treat it with apple care as soon as it arrives, but--- would you confront your friend if she did this to your bbag? would you have her pay for the treatment? if it can't be fixed, would you swallow the cost or have her pay for the damage/a new one? i know its unfair to ask someone to buy a $1000 handbag, but if she was willing to carry it in the first place knowing how expensive and delicate the color is, should i hold her responsible? and how do you approach someone about this??