I got my MAM in black stone wash and Matinee in midnight/pewter yesterday. I also got the Kiss and Make Up in sage stamp last Friday in the mail. I've been stalking my mailbox at school non-stop. I'm so glad that I finally have them. I have to choose between the MAM and Matinee because I can't afford to have both. I love both bags so much. I've been trying to get my friends to help me choose but they're not really helping. The leather on the MAM is soft, the bag is smaller and it fits me because of my height. (I'm really short, 4'11" almost 5ft.) But whenever I try on the Matinee it makes me want it over the MAM even though it's kind of big. I really love the midnight color but the leather is kind of stiff compared to the MAM. I really want to get my mom's opinion but she doesn't know I bought these. She would yell at me for buying it. So I decided that I will show her the bag that I choose after chinese new year. I'll tell her that I used that money and I'll cut the price in half. I know it's bad...she keeps telling me stop looking at stuff online and focus on school. So...which one should I keep?