So the Neiman Marcus package was "stolen" from my front porch. We just moved here and I am soooo sad b/c I never thought things like this would happen in this neighborhood. I am missing the city and my doorman right now. NM (Shannon) is being soooo nice and they said they will find me another bag. The thing is, I am now thinking that the bag isn't right for me. I feel bad telling them I changed my mind after all of this drama. Its the dark white soft vintage tote. I have the black one and love it, but the more I think about it, the more I realize I will throw it around and abuse it (like I do with all of my totes). I feel soooo bad telling her to find a different bag for me. Should I suck it up if she can find me another one? I hate being so indecisive....