I have a bit of a dilemna here.....I am right in that age where everybody is getting married and basically I have attented 2 weddings each year for the past 3 years + birthday parties and also christenings. I always said "we have a quota of 2 weddings a year, the first invites we get are the ones we go to...." I wished it was THAT simple !!! This year we have.......3 birthday parties + 3 weddings (1 christening has been canceled bc we said "not possible").......and it costs a lot bc it is abroad everytime so it means flight tickets (no low cost) + hotel + presents + clothing. The weddings are really good friends, not best best friends, but second circle. And I am going to 2 of the birthdays since it´s family. Before I was just grouping holidays with it, but now I am feeling I want something else than spending my time and money to celebrate others all the time !! Am I selfish ?? How to say yes to one and no to the other ? Choose by preference of the friend ? of the location ? of the others friends that will be there ? Or just say No to everything and go somewhere on a real holiday away ??? How do you take your decisions ???