I had the biggest arguement with my mother in law last night that I need to vent!!! We talked about what went on over the weekend...it was all pleasant. I then went on to share with her that I was going to my fitness spa for 9 weeks, that I was excited, I needed to do this for ME, how I was lloking forward to it for so many reasons...all related to me and recovering from grief, learning to take care of myself in a healthy way etc...SHE WAS SO MEAN! Told me she did not understand why I could no simply take care of myslef at home, and what was my husband (her son) going to do without me for 9 weeks...went on to say that she "was not raised like I was" (meaning she thinks I have been handed everything on a silver platter since birth) which IMMEDIATLY made me angry...I had and have a nice life...but I also worked my ass for years and never asked for any help from my father ever. I NEVER wanted my inheritance at this age...I always thought I would be more like 60 not 35...I would take Dad back any day. IM SO PISSED. I have taken care of her when she was beaten and robbed here in Key west, she lived with us for a month...I gave her my car when I bought a new one...she has come into my home and bossed me around..etc...I have taken alot of **** from her and never said a word...I can think of so many things my mind is spinning...end of the conversation.....I hung up on her. I will be writing a letter telling her what a mistake she made by talking to me like that. I will now keep a huge distance from her. How sad for my husband...we are buying another house and I had planned on having a house behind the house for her...NO WAY!! Anyone else have a mother in law that makes you crazy?