hi guys! some of you may know ive been struggling with whether to get the soft frame bag! its so cute and i was so close to pulling the trigger when i saw the bow bag that everyone's been talking about! so now i cant decide which bag i should get!!! they are both so cute and im so torned!! if you guys can give me ur 2cents thatd be great!!!! im gonna get either one in black! thanks!! (the black's one the soft frame, the white one's the bow!) thanks so much!!