Yesterday I was hanging out with a couple friends and we had to take off our rings for the project we were working on. This led us to start talking about our e-rings and one of the girls says to me, "how big is your diamond - under 2cts right?" (my stone is 2.66cts and I thought it looked fairly large on my size 5.5 fingers).
I just said, um no, it's a bit over 2.5cts. My friend's response was that there was no way since she had seen a 2ct before and, in her opinion, it looked gaudy and enormous. She then said that my diamond looked really small for the size I said and seemed to be hinting that she thought I was either lying or had been ripped off.
I got a little defensive and was pretty annoyed with her after that. I don't know why I'm being so sensitive about it - I don't think my stone looks small but apparently other people do. Silly thing to get my feelings hurt over, so I just wanted to get it off my chest since H doesn't understand.
/rant
If anyone else has a story of someone being rude about their ring, I'd love to commiserate.
I just said, um no, it's a bit over 2.5cts. My friend's response was that there was no way since she had seen a 2ct before and, in her opinion, it looked gaudy and enormous. She then said that my diamond looked really small for the size I said and seemed to be hinting that she thought I was either lying or had been ripped off.
I got a little defensive and was pretty annoyed with her after that. I don't know why I'm being so sensitive about it - I don't think my stone looks small but apparently other people do. Silly thing to get my feelings hurt over, so I just wanted to get it off my chest since H doesn't understand.
/rant
If anyone else has a story of someone being rude about their ring, I'd love to commiserate.