Thinking of getting the mini perry satchel in tortora because I love the grayish lavender color. However, I think the tortora for that bag is more purple than gray. Do you think it's too purple? Would it still be a good neutral? I love the tortora color in the amorous satchel and mini affair- those leathers look more grayish. Should I get the mini perry satchel in black instead? Thanks in advance for your input. The hubby is no help. Haha!