do you find the 20cm kelly is suitable with tuxedo/gown events? it seems a little too structured to me -- but the softer clutches (jpg kelly, mini jige) don't have a strap so you can hold onto them while dancing. and they're still kind of structured, too. do i just have to resign myself to a non-h bag for super dressy affairs? not that i go to many -- so maybe it doesn't even make sense for me to invest in hermes for them. i'm hopeless. i've been obsessed with the 20cm kelly and so i'm probably just trying to find more reasons to get one. oh well, at least i'll get to play with one when ninja sue and i do a field trip to KOP!