Has anyone seen one of them in person, or even purchased one? I really like the look of the large, but I wonder how slouchy it is. I sold Rory because I found her too slouchy, but I also didn't like the handles. I like the handles of the Hadley duffle, but I like a little structure to a large bag. I have no outlet near me and I don't want to buy another bag online only to return it! Thanks in advance!