I'm looking for a LV bag that I can sling across my body and wear messenger style. I know the Abbesses is designed specifically for this purpose. Do you think this bag can be carried off by a female? Or is it meant for guys only? I've tried this bag on, and I liked it more than I expected to, but I'm still on the bubble. What other LV bags (preferably in Monogram) would you recommend for this purpose?