I'm thinking of getting the Men's Day/Messenger. Got the courier (as a diaper bag actually!) but the strap is too short for my liking when I cross-sling. The Messenger has the perfect strap for me, but do you think it's too manly for a woman...carrying a baby?? Also, does anyone know where there's one available now, and the price and color? Apparently there's a new style, the Men's Weekender, ie. Weekender with a strap! uhoo!!! Can't wait to see it!