Hey ladies, I think I have to ask for your advice. I`m a guy but I simply love the medium/large flap and I would so like to get one (preferably the A01112 in any shade of brown and with golden HW) Since I can`t wear it on the shoulder as everybody else, since that would look too feminine, I was wondering if you can wear the flap across the body. I know that it works with the Jumbo, but that one is simply too huge and bulky when worn across! Can anybody tell me if it works or do you maybe have a pic of you wearing your m/l flap across? And does the chain maybe come in different lengths? Thanks so much!