Which do you gals think is better- the medium sig tote in kakki brown or the medium carly bag (not sure which color or style yet)??? I can't decide. I have other coach bags similiar in color, ect. but I can't decide on the style that I like the best. I love the large carly but I think it looks too big on me. How heavy is the carly bag when your carrying it around? Do your things fall out of the sig strip tote (no zipper)? Any pros/cons? Which is more popular? Thanks!!