Thanks gals, I was about 99% sure that I wouldnt need to worry about doing nething further with her, I've done my part as far as I am concerned. If I take the neg I will just deal with it I guess. I wrote her back and told her that I was sorry this has happened and I hope it works out for her but after the package was accepted and signed for by her sister at the address she has provided to paypal that it was out of my hands and there is nothing further I can do for her.