I thought this would be funny to share: According to Sam Gosling, author of The Secret Language of Stuff, a cursory scan of a womans apartment speaks volumes about her world. 1. Entertainment Center Tech signposts are key, and a flatscreen monster with all the bells and whistles doesnt necessarily mean shes a Greys Anatomy junkie. People with the latest and greatest gadgets often crave stimulation, says Gosling. Translation: Youre in for awkward wineandcheese parties galore. 2. Living Room If she has recreated a Pottery Barn showroom, youre dealing with a nester. Lots of pillows indicate an extrovert who wants to craft an inviting environment, explains Gosling. She needs constant company.