Okay, so I am in the process of getting ready to decorate on my own for the first time. I was wondering, if I like a red and cream bedspead, does that mean that the on-suite bathroom has to have the same color pallete. Or is it okay to do the bathroom in a blue-brown-cream color palette? Also, does this comforter set look too masculine, or is it appropriate for a husband and wife's bedroom? http://www.nautica.com/product/index.jsp?productId=12131891&cp=2949275.3912590.4231519&parentPage=family Thanks!