Here goes...taking a deep breath...my husband and I have been arguing a lot lately, and I mean A LOT. I have been through hell and back these past few years due to family problems, and I guess I was dumb enough to think it wouldn't affect my marriage. I won't go into detail of why we've argued as of late, but I've been very hurt and sad by his actions and the people I have been able to turn to have all sided with me without hesitation. We've both agreed to go to counseling, and so I turn to you all. Has anyone gone before, and does it help heal wounds? I know this is a private matter but any advice would be very helpful. I just don't know where to turn to and sick and tired of 'hoping' things will get better after making up..only to end up fighting again. Also anyone in the LA/South Bay area with recommendations to any family or couple therapists? TIA.