A few years ago, on my mother's 50th birthday, my grandmother gifted her with her own mother's ring, which my mother immediately passed down to me! (Please excuse my yucky post-Boxing Day chipped nails in these photos)
The story goes that my great-grandparents got married during WWII, but because of the way things were at the time, my great-grandfather couldn't afford a nice ring for many years afterwards. He saved up, and after the war, took his wife to one of the nicest jewellery shops in Copenhagen - A. Dragsted - and they bought this ring. It's still in the original box.
Amazingly, given my chubby little fingers (size 7 left-hand ring finger), the ring ONLY fits on my 'engagement' finger. I don't know anything about it other than that it's set in 14K white gold, and it's quite sparkly. I'm not sure about the Cs, or even what type of cut this is, really! Does anyone have any idea? It's modest by today's standards, but in Europe at the time, it might have been a lot more extravagant. I think the middle stone is below 0.5, and maybe the sides are below 0.2?
I'm so lucky to get such a nice gift from my mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, by proxy! The problem is that I'm not engaged (even though everyone in my family and my DBF's family are basically shoving us up the aisle), and I don't want to whip everyone into a greater frenzy (and panic him!) by starting to wear the ring. I originally planned on keeping it as my engagement ring, but it's not really my style...I really love princess cut diamond solitaires, or three-stone halos, and chunkier bands/shanks.
The backstory of the ring, including how long it took for my great-grandmother to get it, is really keeping me from pulling it apart for a pendant or earrings. Even getting it sized for a RHR or middle finger ring seems a bit mean, as it only fits my 'engagement' finger, and seems a bit meant-to-be.
Has anyone else had this experience with inheriting jewellery? On one hand, it's so amazing, and on the other, it's a bit of a ball and chain! I want to wear it NOW and can't find a way to!
The story goes that my great-grandparents got married during WWII, but because of the way things were at the time, my great-grandfather couldn't afford a nice ring for many years afterwards. He saved up, and after the war, took his wife to one of the nicest jewellery shops in Copenhagen - A. Dragsted - and they bought this ring. It's still in the original box.
Amazingly, given my chubby little fingers (size 7 left-hand ring finger), the ring ONLY fits on my 'engagement' finger. I don't know anything about it other than that it's set in 14K white gold, and it's quite sparkly. I'm not sure about the Cs, or even what type of cut this is, really! Does anyone have any idea? It's modest by today's standards, but in Europe at the time, it might have been a lot more extravagant. I think the middle stone is below 0.5, and maybe the sides are below 0.2?
I'm so lucky to get such a nice gift from my mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, by proxy! The problem is that I'm not engaged (even though everyone in my family and my DBF's family are basically shoving us up the aisle), and I don't want to whip everyone into a greater frenzy (and panic him!) by starting to wear the ring. I originally planned on keeping it as my engagement ring, but it's not really my style...I really love princess cut diamond solitaires, or three-stone halos, and chunkier bands/shanks.
The backstory of the ring, including how long it took for my great-grandmother to get it, is really keeping me from pulling it apart for a pendant or earrings. Even getting it sized for a RHR or middle finger ring seems a bit mean, as it only fits my 'engagement' finger, and seems a bit meant-to-be.
Has anyone else had this experience with inheriting jewellery? On one hand, it's so amazing, and on the other, it's a bit of a ball and chain! I want to wear it NOW and can't find a way to!
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