So I got a Mahogany(cinnamon in common languange i think) First. I do love it however, the handles and the rim of the top part where the zipper is seems a bit stiff. I am used to really squisshy and mostly city bags so Im not sure if the First is supposed to be That Squarish rather than slouching a bit. i was wondering if it is normal and supposed to be like that. or does the stiffness soften out a lot when i use a bit?