How do you like the style of it & do you recommend it? Does it look old because of the style & the color? (if it's the metallic black) A friend of mine thinks this bag is old fashion. I see people wearing the bowler style & not the flap at all. How did your metallic black leather hold up? Does it scratch easily & the metallic part get scratch off? Did the leather soften up with use & the bag become slouchier? Any pros & cons with this bag? I know I am a little late when it comes to this collection. How do you like this collection compare to the NEW Modern Chain? Oh, lastly, is the flap heavy at all? Do you know approx how many lbs? Will this bag be good as an everyday bag? Any comment will be great! Thank you!